
Self-help has always been one genre that keeps me glued while reading. I look forward to books that have a tone that is practical and not something preachy. I choose books which have a good amount of examples, case studies and research based evidence which is a sign that the book needs to be added to my TBR. Here are a few books that made it to my reading list.
Average sucks by Michael Bernoff

A book that challenges you to come out of your comfort zone and unleash your true potential. The reason we don’t get what we want is that we have an average that defines the behavior, performance, and results. This is the reason that the book argues. Our average is the invisible force that keeps us stuck in mediocrity and prevents us from achieving our goals. It shows how to identify our average, raise it, and surpass it so that we create an extraordinary life.
It is not a typical self-help that gives generic advice but rather a powerful guide that teaches how to change mindset, habits, and actions. The author has used these tools and techniques with thousands of clients.
The book has three sections such as
PART 1: The problem– Explain what your average is. How it affects you and why it hurts.
PART 2: The solution– reveals the five steps to raising your average and creating a lasting change.
PART 3: The action– provides exercises, challenges, and resources to help in implementing the solution and transforming your life.
A suitable book for anyone who wants to improve any area in their life- personal, professional, and social. I realized how my average was holding me back from achieving my dreams. I found a lot of tools and strategies to raise my average to create more happiness and success. A good guide that teaches you how to live an above-average life.Read a short review here. Buy a copy.
Money hacks by Larry Steinhouse

A book that reveals the secrets of money and how to use it to your advantage, it also challenges the common myths and misconceptions about money. The book shows you how to think differently and creatively based on your financial solution. I loved the topics that the book covered such as,
- How to obtain huge lines of credit while building up credit scores and your net worth.
- How to negotiate better deals and save money on everything you buy.
- How to avoid pitfalls and traps of debt, taxes, and inflation.
- How to develop a money mindset that attracts wealth and abundance.
The book is written in a simple, conversational, and humorous style with stories, tips, and real-life examples from the author’s own experience as a successful real investor and entrepreneur. The book is suitable for anyone who wants to learn more about money and how to make it work for them. It is not a get-rich scheme but a realistic guide that teaches the skills and strategies you need to achieve your financial goals. The book opened my eyes to the possibilities and opportunities that money can offer and how I can use it to create more happiness and security in my life.
I found a lot of tools and techniques that can be applied to my situation. A realistic guide which can help anyone understand the truth about money and how to use it smartly. Read a short review here. Buy a copy.
The Science of getting started by Patrick King

A book that explores the psychological and biological reasons why we procrastinate and how to overcome them. It reveals the hidden forces that prevent you from taking action such as perfectionism, fear, impulsiveness, self-doubt, and boredom. It also provides practical and proven strategies to help start and finish any task, goal, or project.
- How to use the power of habits and routines to automate your productivity.
- How to leverage the psychology of motivation and rewards to boost your performance.
- How to apply the principles of behavioral economics, neuroscience, and game theory to make your work more fun and engaging.
- How to overcome the common excuses that keep you stuck.
- How to deal with distractions and interruptions.
- How to cope with stress, anxiety, and fatigue which can sabotage your progress.
Written in a clear, concise, and conversational style, with case studies, personal anecdotes, and scientific research that support the author’s points the book is not a boring text but an entertaining lively guide that teaches skills on how to master the mind and take action.
This book is suitable for anyone who wants to improve their productivity, efficiency, and effectiveness in any area of life. The book was very helpful and an insightful read which helped me understand how I procrastinate and how I can change it. A lot of tips and techniques can help boost my productivity and achieve my goals. I can say that it is a science-based solution to getting started. Read a short review here. Buy a copy.
Lead or get out of the way by Gary .J.Vien

Lead or Get Out of the Way is a practical and inspiring book that lets you know how to become an effective leader. And if you are already one, this book will help you become much more effective. Based on his forty-year career in the military, education, government, and business as a leader, the author presents 8 principles of leadership that help in achieving your goals, overcoming challenges, and influencing others.
With clear examples, tips, and exercises these 8 principles are explained in detail for us to apply in our situations.
The principles are:
- Communicate effectively.
- Build trust and credibility.
- Know yourself and your purpose.
- Lead by example.
- Collaborate and partner.
- Empower others.
- Embrace change and innovation.
- Celebrate success and learn from failure.
A good handbook that lets you assess the leadership skills currently and find out areas for improvement. Written in a simple and engaging style, with a pinch of wisdom, insight, and humor, it is a book that is apt for anyone who wants to improve their leadership skills, irrespective of whether they are people who aspire to be leaders or new and experienced leaders.
A helpful and motivating read, the book gives practical tools and strategies to enhance leadership abilities and confidence. Making me think about how to make an impact on others and to think differently is what the book made me gain.
These books help understand what actually is happening and analyse situations. They also guide you on how to handle situations by giving you the knowledge about tools and techniques which will help you arrive at solutions. Read a short review here. Buy a copy.
This blog post is part of the blog challenge ‘Blogaberry Dazzle’ hosted by Cindy D’Silva and Noor Anand Chawla in collaboration with the Bohemian Bibliophile.

Average Sucks matches my current needs, am going to read that. I must remove the blocks. Great recommendations.
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I don’t read self-help books, somehow only if I’m curious about a title will I actually have an interest to read it. But I haven’t learnt much about life from books. I give my own gyan! HAhaha!
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I have not read any of these but would love to read all these books. Currently I am reading atomic habits which is an amazing read. Thanks for the recommendation.
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Thanks for the list – all of them sound very interesting especially ‘average sucks’. I find it hard to read non fiction, including self help, but the one that really got me hooked was 7 habits of highly effective teenagers. I read it in my last teen year and it had a big impact on me.
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Thank you for sharing these thought-provoking book reviews! I’m always on the lookout for self-help books that offer practical advice and real-world examples, and these seem to fit the bill perfectly.
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I am an avid reader, but I mostly prefer reading fiction over non-fiction. Your book suggestions though want me to try reading them.
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I am not much of a self help book reading person unless it is in the form of a story or a fable. My husband reads a lot of these books and uses them for his personal and professional development. I m gonna recommend Average Sucks to him as it seems like he will be interested in it.
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Thanks for providing these insightful book reviews! I’m constantly searching for self-help books with practical advice and real-world examples, and these appear to align perfectly with what I’m looking for. While I haven’t read any of them yet, I’m eager to explore each of these books, especially average sucks.
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I rarely delve into self-help books; only if a title piques my curiosity do I consider reading one. However, my life lessons have primarily come from personal experiences rather than books, although I have read a few.
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The title ” Average Sucks ” caught my attention and probably I would like to pick up Money Hacks too (because who does not want money). Great suggestions and thank you for that.
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All these book sound good and give practical advice to get better in different areas of life. I will gift to my son Money Hacks after his exams are over. He will like it.
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i struggle quite a bit when it comes to self help books. Earlier I never used to read them. For the past couple of years, I have been making a concious effort to read them . Thank you for the recs .
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I don’t usually read self help books but I will surely share this with my daughter. I liked the different range of topics you shared the book about.
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An interesting list! I myself do read self help books, and surprisingly I have not heard of these yet… i am going to check them out.
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Self help is one genre of the books which I can’t read. So I will pass this one. But i am sure these would good suggestions for people who are interested in self help books
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I am not into self help books, I have tried reading a few books suggested by my husband but I couldn’t finish any of those and I doubt if they were of any help too. But my husband values practical advice backed by research and real-life examples, I am sure he will find this post helpful, sharing it with him.
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I love the fact that all these books are non fiction. As someone who’s on the lookout for their next read, thank you for this post.
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I am big fan of self help books too. Loved all of them and will grab them for sure. Loved the title Average sucks, so will start with this. Thanks for sharing the brief review of each.
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All of these look interesting but The Science of Getting Started particularly made me curious. Lovely review
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Those are some really good book recommendations.
Much needed by everyone at some point. Would try to get my hands on at least one this month.
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I’m adding two books to my TBR Money Hacks and Getting Started (I’m a huge procrastinator)… Loved the way you’ve given a brief description enough to arouse interest but not giving away too much.
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All three of these books are new to me but they seem very interesting. Another self-help book I can recommend (at the cost of tooting my own horn!) is ‘Brave Inked Emotions’ edited by Roma and to which I’m one of the contributing writers!
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