Lessons from Tuesdays with Morrie



I was really not a fan of non-fiction and especially self-help. Gone are the days where people browsed online to improvise their life skills, self-esteem and then came the era of youtube videos. We had a lot of self-help experts pitching in and making videos to help people learn from home.



But however the joy of learning to mould yourself from reading a book. The life lessons that the book imparts on you is sure to leave a lasting impact. Though we do see a lot of things in daily life some memories of events or facts from the books we read linger fresh in our minds no matter the time that passes.



One such book that was gifted to me and really made me think of life in a while new perspective is Mitch Albom’s “ Tuesdays with Morrie”.


The Author’s favourite teacher Morries Schwartz is in his death bed counting his days as he suffers from a chronic disease. The Author meets up with Morrie every Tuesday and the book gives you the events or life lessons that Morrie imparts to Mitch.


People’s perception of their life and the life around them changes when they come to know that they are dying. It is a sequential turn that they take in their journey of life that makes them realize what is important and what is not.



Morrie from his death bed helps Mitch unfold answers to a lot of complex life problems. His slow demise makes Mitch give a deep thought and understands how to deal with life and the complex situations it puts us in.


As Morrie says to Mitch,

 “Study me in my slow and patient demise. Watch what happens to me. Learn with me..” 

But Mitch puts it this way,



“Morrie would walk that final bridge between life and death, and narrate the trip.”



Here are my takeaways and the lessons that I learnt from the book.



1. Questions for self-reflection. Because living a life that is fulfilling deserves answers to these questions.


Have you found someone to share your heart with?
Are you giving to your community?
Are you at peace with yourself?
Are you trying to be as human as you can be?

We may or may not have come across these questions but if we do have the answers we know we’re on the right path.


2.“The culture we have does not make people feel good about themselves. We’re teaching the wrong things. And you have to be strong enough to say if the culture doesn’t work, don’t buy it. Create your own.”


Morrie explains how the culture is flawed and how should we create one if we do not fit into what exists currently.


3.“Life is a series of pulls back & forth. You want to do one thing, but you are bound to do something else. Something hurts you, yet you know it shouldn’t. You take certain things for granted, even when you know you should never take anything for granted. A tension of opposites, like a pull on a rubber band. And most of us live somewhere in the middle.” 

The above quote explains how Morrie puts the topic of tension of opposites. The confusion of age that brings in what is expected of us to what we actually want. The quote clearly makes you think that we humans suffer consequences of our self-created problems. We put ourselves into complicated situations.



4.“So many people walk around with a meaningless life. They seem half-asleep, even when they’re busy doing things they think are important. This is because they’ve been chasing the wrong things. The way you get meaning in your life is to devote yourself to loving others, devote yourself to your community around you, and devote yourself to creating something that gives you purpose and meaning.”
Preserving humanity is the greatest cause to which we must devote ourselves when we need happiness and satisfaction.



5.“The most important thing in life is to learn how to give out love, and how to let it come in. We think we don’t deserve love. We think, if we let it in, we’ll become too weak.  But, a wise man named Lenin said it right. He said, “Love is the only rational act.”

The universe exists and survives on love. The very basis of humanity is love and so,
the most important lesson that we learn is how to give out love and how to let it inside?

6.
“Why are we embarrassed by silence? What comfort do we find in all the noise?”  We quite often avoid or are embarrassed by silence failing to realize that silence, solitude and loneliness are the gift to mankind.


7.
“Do the kinds of things that come from the heart. When you do, you won’t be dissatisfied, you won’t be envious, you won’t be longing for somebody else’s things. On the contrary, you’ll be overwhelmed with what comes back”

In a nutshell trust and faith should come from within. If we want others to have trust in us, we should also have the same in them. This will not make you feel envious.

8.

Everyone knows they are going to die, but nobody believes it. If we did, we would do things differently.”
Living is fear of death will never be the answer, when we fail to accept that death is a part of our life and is inevitable. Learning to take time of things that matter and living life to the fullest is the key that will help you in accepting the fact.

Morrie suggests doing what Buddhists do, which is: “Every day, have a little bird on your shoulder that asks, ‘Is today the day? Am I ready? Am I doing all I need to do? Am I being the person I want to be?’”

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17 Replies to “Lessons from Tuesdays with Morrie”

  1. Beautiful post. I have watched this movie and loved it. One dialogue that I remember is (pardon it the words are not correct) “we fill the air with so much noise that we start feeling uncomfortable with silence” something that you also mentioned in #6.

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  2. Wow!! Couldn’t ask for a better book to start reading. After delivery I have been busy with kids. And now since I am back to.blogging may be I could smart reading as well.
    This books seems really interesting.

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  3. I had heard a lot about this before but never get a chance to explore it much. your post has worked like a reminder, I will watch the movie based on this book this weekend. I have co related with many points from the post.

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  4. I’ve read this book and was full of contemplation days after it was over. The questions you’ve raised and answered bring out the beauty of the book.

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  5. I read Tuesdays with Morrie first time a decade ago and to my surprise, it still continues to be the best book I’ve ever read. The book has life lessons for person of every age group and like you, even I highly recommend it.

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  6. People’s perception of their life changes when they come to know that they are dying..so true. This book sounds really good and I am also a big fan of self help books. Would love to read this.

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  7. This book sound so good to read. It’s so true that people realize the true value of life when they know they are dying. And I feel I am going to learn many things about life from this book. I am going to give it a read

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  8. I remember watching the movie but never had the chance to read the book. Such classics should be read and revisited again and again.

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  9. Wow, the book seems very interesting to read. So many ch to learn from this book. Can’t wait to get my hands on this book .

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  10. I ahd read this book a long long time ago. Maybe in 2003 or 2004 and was in love with it. I remember recommending It to all my friends and colleagues too. This book is a classic and should be read by everyone.

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  11. Such an inspiring book Sindhu. I haven’t read many self-help or motivational books in life but always love to take away things from others experiences. I loved the key lines u have shared in the pointers at the end.

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  12. Wow!! Seems the book has some great life lessons to impart. I really loved the review and shall sure get my copy and read this.

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