Indian festivals – That Madras Mom

October 16, 2025

Deck Up Your Home for Diwali—The Sustainable Way!

Diwali, the festival of lights, is more than just sparkle and sweets—it’s a celebration of renewal, warmth, and togetherness. But what if this year, your home radiates not just beauty but also conscious choices? Let’s explore how to deck up your space sustainably, repurposing Navratri décor and using items that are reusable, biodegradable, or already in your home.

🌼 1. Repurpose Navratri Decor: Give It a Diwali Twist

Navratri brings with it a riot of colors, fabrics, and florals. Instead of packing it all away, here’s how to give it a second life:
Garlands & Torans: Reuse marigold or mango leaf garlands as door hangings. Add fairy lights or bells for a Diwali upgrade.
Fabric Backdrops: Those vibrant dupattas or sarees used during Navratri can become table runners, curtain accents, or wall drapes.
Decorative Pots & Kalash: Paint them with natural colors or wrap them in jute for a rustic Diwali vibe.
🪔 2. DIY Decor from Everyday Items
You don’t need to buy new to make your home glow. Look around—your Diwali magic is already there.
Glass Jar Lanterns: Upcycle old jam jars with lace, jute, or colored paper. Drop in a tealight and voilà!
Thali Centerpieces: Use steel or brass thalis layered with diyas, flowers, and grains like rice or pulses for a traditional yet eco-friendly centerpiece.
Paper Rangoli: Cut colored paper scraps into rangoli patterns. Bonus: they’re reusable and kid-friendly!
🌸 3. Natural & Biodegradable Touches
Let nature be your decorator this Diwali.
Floral Rangoli: Use petals from roses, marigolds, chrysanthemums, or even leaves. Add turmeric and rice flour for color and texture.
Clay Diyas: Skip plastic lights and go for earthen diyas. Paint them with natural pigments or leave them raw for an earthy charm.
Banana Leaf Placemats: Hosting a festive meal? Use banana leaves as placemats—they’re biodegradable and beautiful.
♻️ 4. Reusable Decor Staples
Invest once, reuse forever.
Fabric Lanterns & Buntings: Stitch or buy cloth lanterns and buntings that can be folded and stored for years.
Jute & Cane Decor: Think tealight holders, baskets, and trays made from jute, cane, or bamboo. They add texture and are planet-friendly.
Terracotta Figurines: Use them as puja decor or table accents. They’re timeless and sustainable.
🌿 5. Conscious Lighting Choices
Let your lights shine responsibly.
Solar String Lights: Perfect for balconies and gardens. They charge during the day and glow all night.
Beeswax Candles: A cleaner alternative to paraffin candles, with a subtle honey scent.
LEDs Over Incandescents: If you must go electric, choose LEDs—they consume less power and last longer.
🎇 Final Touch: A Mindful Glow
This Diwali, let your home reflect not just tradition but transformation. By repurposing Navratri decor, choosing natural materials, and embracing reusable pieces, you’re not just decorating—you’re storytelling. A story of culture, care, and conscious celebration.

This blog post is part of ‘Blogaberry Dazzle’
hosted by Cindy D’Silva and Noor Anand Chawla
in collaboration with Ratna Prabha.

October 21, 2024October 24, 2024

Navratri Golu: Celebrating Tradition, Family, and Culture Close to My Heart

Navratri Golu is a vibrant and cherished tradition in South India, especially in Tamilnadu. During the nine nights, families set up steps to showcase a multi-tiered display of dolls and figurines called Golu.
The depictions differ for each family as they could be scenes from daily life or Hindu mythology. Every evening, families offer foods such as pulses and sweets to the Golu as prasad and exchange greetings, gifts, and sweets. They sing devotional songs together and recite shlokas that give a divine vibe. Children and adults enjoy the creativity and craftsmanship involved in making these displays. Some of these dolls or figurines are carried across generations. There is a lot of happiness when you visit Golus at other houses to watch the type of dolls they’ve used in their displays. The nine days are dedicated to celebrating Goddess Durga in her different forms.

This is a good time to get together with family members and friends that foster community spirit and cultural heritage. There is a recent color code that started becoming a trend. Every year before Navratri a colour code is devised that lists out colours for each day.

Months before Navratri we take time to plan the food items to offer, dolls to display, the themes to decide, dresses to wear, and return gifts to give people who visit the house.

This trend of deciding what to wear as per the color code for the year impressed me much. In 2020, I started draping sarees as per the color code. This is a great way to wear sarees that have been lying around in the wardrobe. Restyle the sarees in different ways. My mother used to help me decide the sarees and choose what accessories that go with them.

2021, everything was all set for the golu that year from guest lists to sarees to drape, and what prasad to offer each day, but there came a big blow that we never expected. We lost mom to a sudden massive heart attack. My entire world came down shattered into pieces which I’d never knew I’d be able to build back again.

Days passed but I couldn’t gather myself, but I decided what I should do. I draped the sarees of my mom in memory of her. Every saree felt like a warm hug. Touchwood, till this year I’ve been draping sarees as per the color code each year. It gives me a sense of joy to celebrate what mom loved to do and how she would love to see me. Golu every year is so special to me, I carry forward the tradition from mom and would take it forward to the next.

This post is a part of ‘Feeling Festive Blog Hop’ hosted by Manali Desai and Sukaina Majeed .

This blog post is part of the blog challenge ‘Blogaberry Dazzle’
hosted by Cindy D’Silva and Noor Anand Chawla
in collaboration with Dr. Preeti Chauhan.

March 6, 2024

5 must read books on Indian festivals

As much as I love teaching my kids about culture and tradition, there is nothing like a good old book that can help in making them understand much better. We live in a world where kids well at least some of them would not have access to experience the essence of the festivity’s books can help them understand the reason behind the celebration came into place, how to celebrate, and what preparations need to be done.

Here are some books that I came across and I’m sure you would enjoy some of them too.

FESTIVALS OF INDIA from Sonia Mehta’s Discover India series

The book unravels the vibrant tapestry of India’s diverse festivities. The book takes readers on a journey through all the festivities. With vivid descriptions and captivating illustrations, the book brings alive each festival from Holi and Diwali.

The Author weaves fascinating stories and legends associated with each festival. Through this, the children learn customs, traditions, and the joy of coming together to celebrate the festivals.

The book is perfect for little minds to explore the country’s rich cultural heritage. The book strikes a perfect balance between information and entertainment.

FESTIVALS THROUGH THE YEAR by Rachna Chhabria

Through the eyes of twins, Natasha and Nikhil this book helps little minds explore the cultural heritage of the country and celebrate it.

Starting with Lohri in January to Christmas in December, Natasha and Nikhil explore festivals throughout the year.

The book is a treasure to cherish and revisit because of the detailed descriptions and wealth of information it contains about each of the festivals.

Young readers are introduced to rituals and joy associated with each festival along with explaining the significance.

Right from Holi to Diwali the child understands the traditions and customs.

Not only that Natasha and Nikhil record their experiences of the festivities on a blog.
Their observations add depth and authenticity to the storytelling.

AMMA, TELL ME ABOUT FESTIVAL series by Bhakti Mathur

This set is a lovely find for book readers. Fortunate to have had the chance to review these books, what caught my attention was the colorful illustrations, simple text, and engaging story narration.

Holi, Diwali, and Ramayana are the books in this series where the mother tells the children the story of how the festival came into existence.

Klaka and Kiki, the two siblings settle down for a story from Amma where she weaves a charming story on a delightful journey to celebrate Holi and Diwali.

SHE CELEBRATES

This book is an anthology of 21 stories by women across the world who are of Indian origin. Each of these stories has a backdrop of an Indian festival like Lohri, Sankranti, Teej, Onam, and Vishu to name a few. What I loved the most was the recipe at the end of each chapter associated with the festival. The illustrations were good too.

These are some of the books that had a festive background, caught my attention, and remain a favorite to me and my kids though these books were published long ago. But that’s what books are for right? To be remembered for time immemorial and to be revisited often.

This blog post is part of the blog challenge ‘BookishCafeBloghop2024’ hosted by Rakhi and Samata Dey Bose .