6 books I read this summer

Every summer we look forward to vacation, getting together and making lots of memories. But this time it was something that would scar me forever. Not even three years since I’d started healing from the grief of losing my mother here I am back to square one, as dad left me too. It was all too sudden for me to process cause I thought he still had time. Man proposes, God disposes.

Books have been my comfort zone, my warm hug whenever I needed them. Yet again they’re here to keep me a companion.

I read six books in the last month. Here are some synopses of what they’re actually about.

Mum in a mess

Mothers help set things right for the smooth functioning of the family. Right from the dad to the kids and also taking care of the needs of grandparents, a mother works tirelessly. If they are also working all this is an addition on their plate. Quite often we fail to understand what goes into her thoughts and how does she feel.  We immediately jump to conclusions, and spring to judging her not understanding what led to the current situation. Mother’s also fail to bring to our attention that they need sometime to actually get better.
Mum in a mess, is a story on similar lines where Vishi goes into a cycle of confusion when her super-active mom starts behaving strangely. What initially started off as a spillage of coffee powder on the floor and the struggle to decide who will clean it up. The mess remained on the floor for longer than anyone would have guessed.
Empathy is something that everyone must learn, including kids. Many days passed, so did many instances but still the broken jar and coffee lie on the floor. Vishi’s friend Jahan also came home but still no respite for the broken jar. However when Vishi tried to bring up the topic, the replies were single worded or sometimes a deathly stare.
Vishi sensed things were not right when one morning her father mentioned mom needed extra sleep hours . One fine day when she saw her mom making a list of chores to do, she broke down and had a meltdown. She finally brought herself up to mention that she was facing difficulties. Sanjana carefully portrayed the emotions conveyed among mum, Dad, and Vishi in this scene. What does Vishi do further? How does mum feel and what happened to the broken jar is the remaining part of the story.
Carefully narrated, the book combines empathy, and a child’s curiosity perfectly.

I won’t wash my hair

Most kids don’t prefer to wash their hair. Even when I was a kid, I hated washing my hair. Be it bubbles, the water or the fragrance of the shampoo, nothing convinces a child to get to wash their hair.
‘I won’t wash my hair’ is the story of Divya whose parents have left for a trip, hence her aunt and her dog come home to take care of her. With her aunt running behind the dog, Divya suggests reasons that shampoo gets into her eyes, hair gets dirty again and doesn’t go for a hair wash. Meanwhile, during the time she saves she digs a hole to chile, learns the language of ants and much more.
On the other hand, her teacher Ameena makes her sit near window, outside class, at the playground and finally on the boundary wall because she couldn’t stand the stink. Her friend Sahil agrees not to wash his hair but finally gives up because he couldn’t manage the itch.
Divya manages to skip seven, nine and thirteen days before she skips to washing her hair. Finds all sorts of stuff like pencil, earthworms, chilli from her hair while she lies down on the pillow.
The narration is brilliant from the perspective of a child, the illustrations deserve a special mention as well. What does Divya do in the end when she knows her parents would be back and she can no longer dodge her no hair wash pleads. Read on.

MEHAR’S World of colours

I loved Simi stands tall and couldn’t contain my excitement to read Arti’s new book, Mehar’s World of colours. Two sisters Mehar and Saanvi have a daily routine for their swimming classes accompanied by their mom. While Saanvi excels and has won a lot of competitions, Mehar is only attending just because her mother wants her to. She is very much interested in art and colours and her only liking is to swim in the world of arts alongside vibrant colours.
Mehar and her friend Ananya love to read comics and Mehar’s excitement doubles up when one of her after school classes included comic as well. Support from a teacher is what kids yearn for especially if it is someone who supports their likes and interests. The teacher who calls herself a coach encourages Mehar to enhance her comic skills.
Will Mehar muster up the courage to negotiate with her mom to allow her for the after-school comic classes instead of swimming, especially when her mom wants her to win medals. Mehar and her class help underprivileged students and Mehar also wants to raise funds to help the kids with a better classroom, so suggests an idea of putting up a fund raiser which was immediately approved. Every kid comes up with their best to raise funds for the wonderful cause.
Such a heartwarming tale that tells you how a child handles the situation when she is being imposed interest by her parents , when she has interests in a different field, how a child is selfless and thinks of a  wonderful cause that needs funds for which she suggests an event.sss
In between all this we have complicated relationships between parents who are separated, a juggle in friendships and swimming. How does Mehar handle all this? Does her mom approve of her skipping swimming to pursue a comic? Read the book to know it all.

Another parenting perspective

The genre of self-help when it comes to parenting has a lot of books that offer a lot of information. Quite often the level of information makes you drenched and most often isn’t very relatable since it suits the Western lifestyle. This book by Smruti offers a fresh perspective and which is why the title is another parenting perspective.
Smruti through this book emphasizes much more self-awareness and personal growth while taking the reader on an introspective journey of effective parenting. What really opened my eyes was to look at yourself first and then go to guiding the children. The most important difference that we notice in kids of this generation is their exposure to the outdoors. Kids these days prefer to keep themselves occupied within the house or should I clearly say within their rooms. Be it educational, extracurricular, or even sporting kids resort to screens, Smruti gives you ways to handle this problem.
The book begins with making the couple think about their decision on why to become a parent and how to proceed on the journey there. By covering the different stages I would say the entire parental timeline from birthing to developmental stages to adulthood is well explained.
Self-awareness and personal growth is an evolutionary approach that Smruti suggests we first get an understanding of emotions and needs which will help us become better parents by making us connect with them easily.
Peer pressure, rivalry among siblings, and parenting struggles can be well managed through tips and tools Smruti offers. There are also inspiring ideas and personal anecdotes that will help us manage the struggles in a better way.
As per Smruti being mindfully present for the child will also help with screen time trouble and the empty nest phase which longs for a genuine connection. As I go through the book again and again, I see myself reflecting on the principles mentioned, and give me a way to prospect the inner self.

Tasty tiffin

Packing a tiffin box is a tedious task, especially for kids of this generation. Not only do these kids have much exposure but they also tend to have a lot of expectations. All the more peer pressure is another factor that adds to all this.
As a mom, we must understand their needs but also keep in mind their nutritional needs that need to be fulfilled. A complete packaging of meals for an entire day that encompasses all food groups, carbohydrates, fruits, vegetables, protein, fats, and adequate water. Archana not only gives you innovative ways to make everyday school boxes but also tips here and there on how to pack and to keep them fresh.
The dishes that Archana has given in this book are simple, nutrient-dense, and easy to make. I particularly loved the snacks that made sure it makes the kid feel fuller and also healthy.  Divided into various sections like small snacks, waffles and sandwiches, rice recipes, roti sabzi, and Indian style tiffin items the dishes cover a wide range of cuisines that will make the lunch interesting for kids when the kids open the box. There are 40+ tasty recipes that the book offers which will never make you go on a thinking trip on what to pack. Archana has ensured a perfect balance in taste and nutrition by carefully curating these recipes. More than a cookbook this is a celebration of wholesome meals and the joy of offering your kid a balanced, tasty meal.
The smoothie recipes were the first ones that I tried from the book which were an instant hit with the kids. I’m so glad that I got my hands on the book during the holidays which will help me gear up for the school reopening. I can’t wait to pack interesting lunch boxes for my kids. This book is definitely recommended for moms who have school-going kids.

The Djinn waits a hundred years

The book’s plot spans across generations telling you stories of two women whose lives are connected by the place they live in not by their choice.  The timelines are 1932 and 2014. Akbar Manzil once a magnanimous place is now a crumbling building near the shore at Durban. The timeline of the stories we see are about the Khans during the 1930s and the one about Sana Malek where she tried to cope with the passing away of her mother recently. She moves into the building with her father.
The author explores loneliness and grief against a backdrop of history and fantasy. Though at places the book is haunting it is an enjoyable read. The characterisation of Meena is especially beautifully weaved with resilience, and being fearless that she never gives up.
The multi-layered plot that spans decades carefully blends in the themes that keep the reader engaged. Each chapter unveils a new layer but makes it interconnected.

This blog post is part of the blog challenge ‘BookishCafeBloghop2024’ hosted by  Rakhi   and Samata Dey Bose